In the high-stakes world of Christian Marriage & Work, simple gratitude is often forgotten. Yet, appreciation is the lubricant that keeps the gears of a busy life from grinding. When both spouses feel seen and valued, they are more likely to excel in their callings.
Acknowledging the 'Invisible' Support
Behind every successful professional is a spouse who has made sacrifices. Whether it's taking the kids to school or providing emotional support after a hard day, these 'invisible' tasks are vital. Refer back to parenting as partners for more on this. Don't take the everyday support for granted.
The Language of Encouragement
Speak life into your spouse’s professional abilities. Remind them of their unique gifts and the way God is using them. This acts as a buffer against professional burnout. A few words of affirmation can change the course of a whole work week.
Celebrating Wins Together
When one spouse hits a goal, it should be a win for the whole family. Celebrating together reinforces the idea that you are on the same team. This is a great way to use your quality time. Celebration is a form of worship that acknowledges God's hand in your success.
FAQ
How do I show appreciation when I'm stressed?
Appreciation is most powerful when it's hard. Even a simple 'thank you for making coffee' can break the tension of a stressful morning.
What if my spouse doesn't show me appreciation?
Lead by example. Often, when one spouse increases their gratitude, the other naturally follows suit.
How often should we 'check in' on this?
Make appreciation a daily habit, but do a deeper check-in during your weekly time management meetings.
Browse our encouragement cards and tools to help you express gratitude for your partner. Your appreciation is their greatest fuel.